Our Story



“Sometimes healing begins with a single breath — or a gentle return to yourself.”

About The Whadju Code™

You’re not broken. You’re just overwhelmed — and that’s something we can work with.

From Lived Experience to Legacy Work

Hi, we’re Kris and Jordana, partners in life, parenting, and purpose.

We’re raising three strong-willed, big-hearted daughters (14, 13, and 11... yes, it’s as wild as it sounds). For us, emotional regulation isn’t just theory. It’s a daily practice, a survival skill, and a family value.

The Whadju Code™ began as a quiet need, a need to calm the chaos, soften the shutdowns, and find our way back to ourselves (and each other). I (Jordana) had spent years as a highly sensitive creative, collecting tools to navigate a fast, loud world. Kris brought the structure, the calm, and the strategic brain to turn those tools into something real.

We created this system because we couldn’t find anything that felt like us:

  • Science-informed, but still soft
  • Rooted in nervous system research, but emotionally intuitive
  • Practical, but never clinical
  • Grounded in truth, not trends

This isn’t therapy.
But it’s deeply therapeutic.

We’ve walked through grief, burnout, emotional shutdown, and rebuilding, together. The Whadju Code™ is the toolkit we needed but couldn’t find. Now, it’s the toolkit we offer to you.

It’s honest. It’s human. And it works.

Why We Exist

Modern life overwhelms. Stress, shutdown, emotional chaos, they’ve become the default. But healing doesn’t require a complete overhaul. Sometimes, it starts with just one reset.

That’s why we created The Whadju Code™.

What We Offer

Our printable Blueprints, Companion Tools, and Reset Tools help you:

  • Regulate your emotions in real time
  • Map and track emotional patterns
  • Reconnect with your body and breath
  • Gently build emotional resilience
  • Break generational cycles, without shame

Built on a foundation of:

  • Somatic psychology
  • Nervous system science
  • Trauma-informed, culturally aware practice

We serve individuals, parents, professionals, and communities, especially those who’ve been underserved or overlooked.

 What Makes Us Different

  • Science-backed, but human-first
  • Gentle, simple, and non-clinical
  • Created by people who live it, not just study it
  • Designed for daily life, not diagnosis

Faith & Values Statement – Respect for All Beliefs

The Whadju Code™ is a values-based emotional regulation system designed for families, communities, and professionals from all backgrounds.

It is free from spiritual rituals or religious instruction, allowing users to apply the tools within their own personal, cultural, or faith-based context.

This system has been reviewed to ensure compatibility with halal principles for Muslim audiences, and is designed with respect for all belief systems. We welcome optional adaptations that align with the user’s values, faith, or traditions.

🤍 A Note From Us

At Whadju, we believe emotional support should be simple, human, and accessible to all. Whether you’re a parent, educator, health worker, or simply navigating life’s emotional waves, you belong here.

Thank you for being part of a movement that puts people first, honours lived experience, and makes emotional resilience a right, not a luxury.

May your journey be filled with little wins because each on matters!